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Which Excuse Do You Use?

Boy, do we humans ever have an arsenal of excuses.

We use them to explain, justify and/or self-impose a limitation as to why we can’t do something.

THE reason we can’t get a promotion.
THE reason we can’t tell the truth to someone.
THE reason we no longer let ourselves get excited before a first date.

Want to know how you can tell when you’re making an excuse?

Do the money test.

Ask yourself this: if we gave you one, two, or five million dollars (whatever number works for you), would you be able to NOT text when driving, rage less, be nice to your spawn at witching hour, lose those last 5 pounds, find a new job, quit sugar, be bolder at work, or be a morning person?

Of course, you COULD.

WOULD you?

Well that’s another question. You see, all of a sudden given the right incentive (in this case, money), you could change ANYTHING in your life.

That begets the next question: How come you and your dream life aren’t worth it?


In any area where your results don’t match what you say you want, you have to figure out what your favorite brand of excuse is in that area. Once you can start to hear your favorite excuses, you can start to see them for what they truly are: Dream decay.

Wanna hear some greatest hits of excuses from our clients, coaches, and children, oh my:

On finding a new job:
I’ve been out of the market too long.
I wouldn’t know where to start.
I don’t have any professional clothes to wear to an interview.

On going on the dating sites:
Everyone is a liar.
I just want to do it the way I used to, in person!

On dieting:
I had such a hard week at work, I deserve a cookie.
Diets don’t work for me. Never have.
Thyroid…Metabolism…Big bones.
Muscles just weigh more.

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On getting that colonoscopy/mammogram/teeth cleaning:
During a pandemic?! (p.s. you didn’t do it before the pandemic either)
I feel fine!
I don’t know how my insurance works.

On posting on social media:
I’m too old for this.
My life just isn’t that interesting.
I’m still coming up with ideas…

On stressing less:
So I’m just going to be that asshole who talks about how they “get enough sleep”? No, thank you.
If I don’t worry about the worst case scenario, how will I be prepared when it happens?

Everyone has their own favorite brand of excuse. In truth, excuses are brilliant.

They keep us from having to do something we don’t want to do and let us explain why we can’t {fill in the blank}. Heck, we have permanent no-fault insurance and, best of all, it’s the excuses fault, not ours.

Your happiness, self-esteem, and pride, however, pay the premium.