Sometimes I think so hard I get a headache. And I really think I am solving my problems optimally this way. Upon further reflection, what has always preceded the fastest and most miraculous fulfillment of my dreams and visions has been a shift in consciousness, not thinking up a really good insight or plan. Dangit. What’s up with that?There are multiple […]
It’s time to give thanks for all the various currencies in your “pocket.” You’ve got money, time, food and love. Take stock of the currencies that flow through you every day. Did you know you are the master of them all? Did you know how you think and feel and how resolved you are about […]
I’m going to talk about death in this blog. Since it’s a sensitive topic, I’m giving you a heads up. If your daddy has already passed away, chances are you know you weren’t ready for it. You didn’t know how to prepare or it was sudden and now it’s too late. Hopefully, since then, you’ve […]
I am currently considering throwing a tantrum. My unwitting bosses have foolishly asked me to organize the holiday party. They have assured me that it is “my turn” and that I can delegate all the details and that it’s easy. They’ve even offered to help. But I know the truth: It’s a huge pain in […]
When surveyed, the most popular subject on which you all wanted coaching was time management. So I am dedicating today’s blog to helping you stop squandering your time and feeling out of control about it. We live in an age where you can’t possibly get everything done. It’s time to accept that. But, I still […]
Sometimes I think, “If it weren’t for people, I’d get a lot more done.” Then I laugh, because that is hysterical. I’m a life coach. My job is people. I help people be happy and effective in their lives. I work with other people in order to do that, lots of people. Then, when I am […]
Coaching implies a sideline and a field. As your coach, I am on the sideline while you are on the field in your life, with your people, playing the game. It’s my job to get you really good at it, but your job isn’t passing, shooting, running, defending the goal, etc. Your job is relating […]
This is not going to be your typical parenting list reminding you to get down to eye level with your kids, take a pause and really listen. This is a deeper cut and it’s a little radical, so be prepared. The basic theory is this: your kids are going to turn into you. In many […]
The answer is, whatever you are focusing on with feelings. It’s too damn bad we do not have better control over our inner dialogue because it is ruling the roost and manifesting “our destiny.” We channel our feelings into the “third eye” and, like the headlamp of a Burning Man biker at midnight, it blazes […]
Let me be the parent you wish you had.Let me tell you what is indelibly magic about you and not let you forget.Let me find you beautiful and fascinating.Let me see all of you and still find you whole, pure, capable and full of power.Let me show you my darkness and let you feel you […]
I’ve been working with a lot of yogis and people in the helping professions lately and I’m dismayed. It’s such a bummer that some of you do gooders think that money is dirty, tainted or just hard to come by, because I want more do gooders to have more money. When idealists have money, they […]
What do managing time well, communicating the truth and manifesting have in common?They all lead to sustainable happiness and they all elude us regularly. Most practitioners treat symptoms; at Handel we study how to solve people’s unhappiness at its source. Always at the source of unhappiness we find breaches in Personal Integrity®, or something that […]
